Understanding your core values is essential to an authentic life. Rather than making decisions based on popular opinion, you make decisions based on who you are - at the core. Knowing your core values is essential to finding peace and joy with yourself.
Sometimes Core Values can be summed up in a catchy phrase, such as Moderation in Everything or Love Conquers All. Other times they can be found in a character trait, such as being Responsible or Organized.
A popular exercise to identify core values is to review a list like the one to the left.
The first step is to read through the list and identify approximately 25 values that resonate with you on some level.
Next, narrow that list to ten. This may take a while, but be patient and take the time to complete the exercise. You may discover some values are not a true reflection of who you are.
Likewise, you will most likely find some values to be quite similar. In that case, determine which one is most in line with your belief system. For example, accountable and responsible are similar. Decide which one best defines you.
The last step in the exercise is to create a final list of five core values.
Why five? Because five is manageable. We can easily remember a list of five, so when we are confronted with a snap-decision, we will know how to choose based on which one is in line with our true selves.
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When I took this self-administered test I discovered my core values are family, independence, integrity, orderliness, purpose and wisdom. I know, I bent the rules and chose six. How about you? Have you taken a core values assessment?
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Thanks for sharing this. I've never heard of this sort of exercise. V is for the Virtue of Value as you Build a Better Blog. #AtoZchallenge.
ReplyDeleteI find it valuable, Shirley, especially when I feel as though life is out-of-balance and I need to rein it in :)
DeleteJournaling might be the best way to figure out what your core values are, because as a rule you can't put your finger on them that easily, and they change from time to time. Interesting list; I'll have to have a look later.
ReplyDeleteYES! When in doubt, always journal :)
DeleteThank you for this post, the list, and the process. If we don't all start living from our core values, our inner self, our world is in danger!
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I wholeheartedly agree, Beth!
DeleteI've not done such a thing, but it looks like an interesting exercise.
ReplyDeleteDiscarded Darlings - Jean Davis, Speculative Fiction Writer, A to Z: Editing Fiction
Let me know if you give a try. It might possible be good for developing fictional characters (?)
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